Kink popularity
Being called names during sex — slurs, degrading words, the works. Specific ones land harder for specific people; worth being clear about which.
Hard Words
How common is Hard Words?
24.8% of test-takers say yes to Hard Words, and another 27.8% say maybe.Degrade my partner verbally
47.4% said No, 27.8% said Maybe, and 24.8% said Yes!| No | 37% | Maybe | 30% |
|---|---|
| True | 33% |
| 57% |
| 25% |
| 17% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 33.2%
Straight women: 14.2%
Gay men: 26.6%
Lesbian women: 27.7%
Bisexual men: 34.9%
Bisexual women: 26.5%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
Have my partner degrade me verbally
38.6% said No, 25.0% said Maybe, and 36.4% said Yes!| No | 45% | Maybe | 27% |
|---|---|
| True | 28% |
| 34% |
| 23% |
| 43% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 24.8%
Straight women: 42.1%
Gay men: 47.1%
Lesbian women: 45.6%
Bisexual men: 43.8%
Bisexual women: 49.5%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
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