Kink popularity
Being called names during sex — slurs, degrading words, the works. Specific ones land harder for specific people; worth being clear about which.
Hard Words
How common is Hard Words?
24.7% of test-takers say yes to Hard Words, and another 28.2% say maybe.Degrade my partner verbally
47.1% said No, 28.2% said Maybe, and 24.7% said Yes!| No | 37% | Maybe | 31% |
|---|---|
| True | 33% |
| 58% |
| 26% |
| 17% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 33.2%
Straight women: 13.6%
Gay men: 26.6%
Lesbian women: 27.6%
Bisexual men: 34.9%
Bisexual women: 26.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-14)
Have my partner degrade me verbally
38.9% said No, 25.3% said Maybe, and 35.8% said Yes!| No | 45% | Maybe | 28% |
|---|---|
| True | 27% |
| 34% |
| 23% |
| 43% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 24.6%
Straight women: 41.4%
Gay men: 46.4%
Lesbian women: 45.0%
Bisexual men: 43.3%
Bisexual women: 49.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-14)
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