Kink popularity

Kidnapped!

Role-playing an abduction — grabbed, restrained, taken somewhere, kept. Heavy scene that lives or dies on planning, usually scripted in advance down to the safeword.

How common is Kidnapped!?

17.3% of test-takers say yes to Kidnapped!, and another 20.4% say maybe.

Kidnap my partner as part of a consensual abduction game

62.3% said No, 20.4% said Maybe, and 17.3% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 50%
Maybe 25%
True 25%
73%
16%
11%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 25.8%
Straight women: 9.7%
Gay men: 16.5%
Lesbian women: 13.3%
Bisexual men: 24.1%
Bisexual women: 14.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

Have my partner kidnap me as part of a consensual abduction game

52.6% said No, 21.3% said Maybe, and 26.2% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 56%
Maybe 23%
True 21%
50%
20%
30%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 20.0%
Straight women: 31.3%
Gay men: 28.0%
Lesbian women: 21.1%
Bisexual men: 31.6%
Bisexual women: 35.6%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

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