Kink popularity

Kidnapped!

Role-playing an abduction — grabbed, restrained, taken somewhere, kept. Heavy scene that lives or dies on planning, usually scripted in advance down to the safeword.

How common is Kidnapped!?

16.8% of test-takers say yes to Kidnapped!, and another 20.9% say maybe.

Kidnap my partner as part of a consensual abduction game

62.3% said No, 20.9% said Maybe, and 16.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 50%
Maybe 26%
True 24%
73%
16%
10%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 24.7%
Straight women: 9.2%
Gay men: 16.3%
Lesbian women: 12.8%
Bisexual men: 24.0%
Bisexual women: 15.5%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

Have my partner kidnap me as part of a consensual abduction game

53.6% said No, 21.9% said Maybe, and 24.5% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 57%
Maybe 24%
True 20%
51%
20%
29%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 18.4%
Straight women: 29.5%
Gay men: 27.0%
Lesbian women: 20.4%
Bisexual men: 30.0%
Bisexual women: 34.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

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