Kink popularity

Kidnapped!

Role-playing an abduction — grabbed, restrained, taken somewhere, kept. Heavy scene that lives or dies on planning, usually scripted in advance down to the safeword.

How common is Kidnapped!?

16.9% of test-takers say yes to Kidnapped!, and another 20.7% say maybe.

Kidnap my partner as part of a consensual abduction game

62.4% said No, 20.7% said Maybe, and 16.9% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 50%
Maybe 25%
True 24%
73%
16%
10%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 25.1%
Straight women: 9.6%
Gay men: 16.2%
Lesbian women: 12.5%
Bisexual men: 24.2%
Bisexual women: 15.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

Have my partner kidnap me as part of a consensual abduction game

53.2% said No, 21.5% said Maybe, and 25.3% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 56%
Maybe 23%
True 20%
51%
20%
29%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 18.9%
Straight women: 30.7%
Gay men: 27.7%
Lesbian women: 20.8%
Bisexual men: 30.5%
Bisexual women: 35.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

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