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Kink Popularity: Pain

Engaging in consensual mild pain play can be a form of sensory exploration where partners take turns inflicting and receiving controlled, tolerable levels of discomfort to enhance their sexual experience.

Inflict (mild) pain on my partner

33.1% said No, 32.2% said Maybe, and 34.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 30%
Maybe 32%
True 38%
37%
33%
31%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 39.0%
Straight women: 26.6%
Gay men: 28.8%
Lesbian women: 42.8%
Bisexual men: 40.0%
Bisexual women: 44.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-04-05)

Have (mild) pain inflicted on me

26.6% said No, 27.5% said Maybe, and 46.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 35%
Maybe 31%
True 34%
20%
24%
56%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 31.8%
Straight women: 54.5%
Gay men: 43.7%
Lesbian women: 58.3%
Bisexual men: 45.9%
Bisexual women: 66.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-04-05)

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