Kink popularity

Struggling

Restrained, but pretending to try to escape — pulling against the rope, twisting, fake-fighting it. Heightens the helpless part without changing the actual scene.

How common is Struggling?

37.8% of test-takers say yes to Struggling, and another 26.3% say maybe.

Have my partner wear restraints and struggle

35.9% said No, 26.3% said Maybe, and 37.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 27%
Maybe 26%
True 47%
44%
26%
30%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 48.5%
Straight women: 26.0%
Gay men: 32.8%
Lesbian women: 40.8%
Bisexual men: 43.1%
Bisexual women: 40.4%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-09-20)

Wear restraints and struggle

32.5% said No, 23.7% said Maybe, and 43.9% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 44%
Maybe 25%
True 31%
23%
22%
54%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 27.9%
Straight women: 54.4%
Gay men: 47.4%
Lesbian women: 51.3%
Bisexual men: 47.0%
Bisexual women: 59.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-09-20)

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