Kink popularity

Struggling

Restrained, but pretending to try to escape — pulling against the rope, twisting, fake-fighting it. Heightens the helpless part without changing the actual scene.

How common is Struggling?

37.5% of test-takers say yes to Struggling, and another 26.0% say maybe.

Have my partner wear restraints and struggle

36.5% said No, 26.0% said Maybe, and 37.5% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 28%
Maybe 26%
True 46%
45%
26%
30%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 47.9%
Straight women: 26.1%
Gay men: 31.4%
Lesbian women: 40.3%
Bisexual men: 41.7%
Bisexual women: 40.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-11-01)

Wear restraints and struggle

32.9% said No, 23.5% said Maybe, and 43.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 45%
Maybe 25%
True 30%
23%
22%
54%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 27.8%
Straight women: 54.1%
Gay men: 46.0%
Lesbian women: 51.0%
Bisexual men: 46.4%
Bisexual women: 59.2%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-11-01)

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