Kink popularity

Struggling

Restrained, but pretending to try to escape — pulling against the rope, twisting, fake-fighting it. Heightens the helpless part without changing the actual scene.

How common is Struggling?

38.7% of test-takers say yes to Struggling, and another 27.1% say maybe.

Have my partner wear restraints and struggle

34.2% said No, 27.1% said Maybe, and 38.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 25%
Maybe 27%
True 48%
44%
27%
29%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 50.0%
Straight women: 25.5%
Gay men: 34.0%
Lesbian women: 41.2%
Bisexual men: 44.5%
Bisexual women: 41.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-21)

Wear restraints and struggle

31.8% said No, 24.4% said Maybe, and 43.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 43%
Maybe 26%
True 31%
23%
23%
54%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 28.5%
Straight women: 53.9%
Gay men: 48.5%
Lesbian women: 52.7%
Bisexual men: 45.9%
Bisexual women: 61.5%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-21)

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