Kink popularity

Struggling

Restrained, but pretending to try to escape — pulling against the rope, twisting, fake-fighting it. Heightens the helpless part without changing the actual scene.

How common is Struggling?

38.3% of test-takers say yes to Struggling, and another 26.7% say maybe.

Have my partner wear restraints and struggle

35.0% said No, 26.7% said Maybe, and 38.3% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 26%
Maybe 27%
True 48%
44%
27%
29%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 49.4%
Straight women: 26.0%
Gay men: 33.5%
Lesbian women: 40.2%
Bisexual men: 44.0%
Bisexual women: 41.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

Wear restraints and struggle

32.1% said No, 23.9% said Maybe, and 44.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 43%
Maybe 26%
True 31%
23%
23%
54%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 28.3%
Straight women: 54.3%
Gay men: 48.7%
Lesbian women: 51.8%
Bisexual men: 46.1%
Bisexual women: 60.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

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