Kink popularity
Pain that takes the edge off rather than goes deep — pinches, light slaps, scratches, the sting of a paddle. Sharpens everything else.
Pain
How common is Pain?
34.8% of test-takers say yes to Pain, and another 31.7% say maybe.Inflict (mild) pain on my partner
33.5% said No, 31.7% said Maybe, and 34.8% said Yes!| No | 30% | Maybe | 31% |
|---|---|
| True | 38% |
| 37% |
| 32% |
| 31% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 39.2%
Straight women: 27.1%
Gay men: 28.5%
Lesbian women: 41.9%
Bisexual men: 39.8%
Bisexual women: 43.2%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
Have (mild) pain inflicted on me
26.7% said No, 26.8% said Maybe, and 46.4% said Yes!| No | 36% | Maybe | 30% |
|---|---|
| True | 34% |
| 20% |
| 24% |
| 56% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 32.2%
Straight women: 54.8%
Gay men: 44.2%
Lesbian women: 58.5%
Bisexual men: 46.3%
Bisexual women: 64.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
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