Kink popularity

Pain

Pain that takes the edge off rather than goes deep — pinches, light slaps, scratches, the sting of a paddle. Sharpens everything else.

How common is Pain?

34.6% of test-takers say yes to Pain, and another 31.1% say maybe.

Inflict (mild) pain on my partner

34.3% said No, 31.1% said Maybe, and 34.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 31%
Maybe 31%
True 38%
38%
31%
31%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 39.1%
Straight women: 27.2%
Gay men: 28.0%
Lesbian women: 41.8%
Bisexual men: 38.8%
Bisexual women: 43.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-04)

Have (mild) pain inflicted on me

27.0% said No, 26.4% said Maybe, and 46.5% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 36%
Maybe 30%
True 34%
20%
24%
56%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 32.6%
Straight women: 54.8%
Gay men: 43.4%
Lesbian women: 57.5%
Bisexual men: 47.5%
Bisexual women: 64.4%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-04)

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