Kink popularity

Obedience

Following orders, being trained to follow them, slowly getting better at it. Each correct response builds on the last; failure has consequences.

How common is Obedience?

22.8% of test-takers say yes to Obedience, and another 22.5% say maybe.

Train my partner for obedience

54.7% said No, 22.5% said Maybe, and 22.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 44%
Maybe 25%
True 31%
65%
20%
15%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 32.3%
Straight women: 13.5%
Gay men: 21.3%
Lesbian women: 19.0%
Bisexual men: 28.9%
Bisexual women: 22.6%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

Be trained for obedience by my partner

46.5% said No, 24.8% said Maybe, and 28.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 54%
Maybe 24%
True 22%
41%
26%
33%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 19.9%
Straight women: 33.1%
Gay men: 39.5%
Lesbian women: 31.1%
Bisexual men: 36.4%
Bisexual women: 38.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

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