Kink popularity

Obedience

Following orders, being trained to follow them, slowly getting better at it. Each correct response builds on the last; failure has consequences.

How common is Obedience?

22.7% of test-takers say yes to Obedience, and another 22.8% say maybe.

Train my partner for obedience

54.5% said No, 22.8% said Maybe, and 22.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 43%
Maybe 26%
True 31%
66%
20%
14%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 32.5%
Straight women: 12.8%
Gay men: 20.9%
Lesbian women: 18.8%
Bisexual men: 29.3%
Bisexual women: 22.2%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-05)

Be trained for obedience by my partner

46.9% said No, 25.2% said Maybe, and 28.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 54%
Maybe 24%
True 22%
42%
26%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 19.5%
Straight women: 32.2%
Gay men: 38.9%
Lesbian women: 30.2%
Bisexual men: 36.5%
Bisexual women: 37.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-05)

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