Kink popularity

Obedience

Following orders, being trained to follow them, slowly getting better at it. Each correct response builds on the last; failure has consequences.

How common is Obedience?

23.0% of test-takers say yes to Obedience, and another 22.4% say maybe.

Train my partner for obedience

54.6% said No, 22.4% said Maybe, and 23.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 44%
Maybe 25%
True 31%
64%
20%
16%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 32.1%
Straight women: 14.0%
Gay men: 20.9%
Lesbian women: 20.4%
Bisexual men: 28.8%
Bisexual women: 22.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-04)

Be trained for obedience by my partner

46.1% said No, 24.6% said Maybe, and 29.4% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 53%
Maybe 24%
True 23%
41%
25%
34%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 20.3%
Straight women: 33.9%
Gay men: 38.6%
Lesbian women: 32.3%
Bisexual men: 38.6%
Bisexual women: 38.6%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-04)

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