Kink popularity

Submission

Handing over the controls — letting your partner decide what to do, where to be, what comes next. The give-up is the relief.

How common is Submission?

57.4% of test-takers say yes to Submission, and another 25.2% say maybe.

Have my partner be submissive

17.4% said No, 25.2% said Maybe, and 57.4% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 7%
Maybe 17%
True 76%
27%
32%
41%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 80.4%
Straight women: 36.0%
Gay men: 48.7%
Lesbian women: 60.6%
Bisexual men: 60.4%
Bisexual women: 48.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-11-01)

Be submissive for my partner

8.5% said No, 18.9% said Maybe, and 72.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 15%
Maybe 28%
True 57%
3%
12%
85%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 54.5%
Straight women: 87.1%
Gay men: 75.7%
Lesbian women: 79.2%
Bisexual men: 73.2%
Bisexual women: 82.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-11-01)

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