Kink popularity
Handing over the controls — letting your partner decide what to do, where to be, what comes next. The give-up is the relief.
Submission
How common is Submission?
57.9% of test-takers say yes to Submission, and another 25.0% say maybe.Have my partner be submissive
17.1% said No, 25.0% said Maybe, and 57.9% said Yes!| No | 7% | Maybe | 16% |
|---|---|
| True | 77% |
| 27% |
| 33% |
| 41% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 80.9%
Straight women: 35.3%
Gay men: 49.2%
Lesbian women: 60.9%
Bisexual men: 63.3%
Bisexual women: 50.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-02)
Be submissive for my partner
9.0% said No, 19.1% said Maybe, and 72.0% said Yes!| No | 16% | Maybe | 28% |
|---|---|
| True | 56% |
| 3% |
| 11% |
| 85% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 53.4%
Straight women: 86.9%
Gay men: 76.0%
Lesbian women: 79.7%
Bisexual men: 71.7%
Bisexual women: 82.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-02)
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