Kink popularity
Handing over the controls — letting your partner decide what to do, where to be, what comes next. The give-up is the relief.
Submission
How common is Submission?
58.0% of test-takers say yes to Submission, and another 25.0% say maybe.Have my partner be submissive
17.1% said No, 25.0% said Maybe, and 58.0% said Yes!| No | 7% | Maybe | 16% |
|---|---|
| True | 77% |
| 27% |
| 33% |
| 40% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 80.9%
Straight women: 35.0%
Gay men: 49.0%
Lesbian women: 61.3%
Bisexual men: 64.2%
Bisexual women: 49.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)
Be submissive for my partner
9.1% said No, 19.3% said Maybe, and 71.6% said Yes!| No | 16% | Maybe | 28% |
|---|---|
| True | 56% |
| 3% |
| 12% |
| 85% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 53.1%
Straight women: 86.9%
Gay men: 75.8%
Lesbian women: 79.1%
Bisexual men: 72.4%
Bisexual women: 82.7%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)
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