Kink popularity
Handing over the controls — letting your partner decide what to do, where to be, what comes next. The give-up is the relief.
Submission
How common is Submission?
58.1% of test-takers say yes to Submission, and another 24.9% say maybe.Have my partner be submissive
17.0% said No, 24.9% said Maybe, and 58.1% said Yes!| No | 6% | Maybe | 16% |
|---|---|
| True | 78% |
| 27% |
| 33% |
| 40% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 81.1%
Straight women: 34.8%
Gay men: 49.6%
Lesbian women: 61.6%
Bisexual men: 64.6%
Bisexual women: 49.6%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-14)
Be submissive for my partner
9.2% said No, 19.3% said Maybe, and 71.6% said Yes!| No | 16% | Maybe | 28% |
|---|---|
| True | 56% |
| 3% |
| 12% |
| 85% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 53.1%
Straight women: 86.9%
Gay men: 76.0%
Lesbian women: 78.9%
Bisexual men: 71.8%
Bisexual women: 82.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-06-14)
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