Kink popularity
Handing over the controls — letting your partner decide what to do, where to be, what comes next. The give-up is the relief.
Submission
How common is Submission?
57.6% of test-takers say yes to Submission, and another 25.1% say maybe.Have my partner be submissive
17.4% said No, 25.1% said Maybe, and 57.6% said Yes!| No | 7% | Maybe | 16% |
|---|---|
| True | 77% |
| 27% |
| 33% |
| 41% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 80.8%
Straight women: 35.4%
Gay men: 49.2%
Lesbian women: 61.0%
Bisexual men: 61.3%
Bisexual women: 49.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-09-13)
Be submissive for my partner
8.7% said No, 18.9% said Maybe, and 72.4% said Yes!| No | 15% | Maybe | 28% |
|---|---|
| True | 57% |
| 3% |
| 12% |
| 85% |
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 54.0%
Straight women: 87.0%
Gay men: 76.2%
Lesbian women: 79.7%
Bisexual men: 72.8%
Bisexual women: 82.5%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-09-13)
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