Kink popularity

Choking

Hand on the throat during sex — for the rush and the loss-of-control, not for actually cutting off breath. People who do it seriously learn the difference first.

How common is Choking?

44.9% of test-takers say yes to Choking, and another 26.9% say maybe.
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Choke my partner

28.2% said No, 26.9% said Maybe, and 44.9% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 17%
Maybe 23%
True 60%
38%
30%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 63.1%
Straight women: 28.3%
Gay men: 33.1%
Lesbian women: 44.8%
Bisexual men: 45.0%
Bisexual women: 38.4%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

Have my partner choke me

23.5% said No, 22.4% said Maybe, and 54.1% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 33%
Maybe 29%
True 38%
15%
17%
69%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 36.3%
Straight women: 70.6%
Gay men: 49.8%
Lesbian women: 60.3%
Bisexual men: 47.1%
Bisexual women: 64.2%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

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