Kink popularity

Choking

Hand on the throat during sex — for the rush and the loss-of-control, not for actually cutting off breath. People who do it seriously learn the difference first.

How common is Choking?

44.8% of test-takers say yes to Choking, and another 26.2% say maybe.
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Choke my partner

29.0% said No, 26.2% said Maybe, and 44.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 18%
Maybe 22%
True 59%
39%
29%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 63.3%
Straight women: 28.8%
Gay men: 32.7%
Lesbian women: 45.3%
Bisexual men: 43.3%
Bisexual women: 37.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

Have my partner choke me

23.2% said No, 21.6% said Maybe, and 55.2% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 33%
Maybe 28%
True 39%
14%
16%
69%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 36.9%
Straight women: 71.6%
Gay men: 50.3%
Lesbian women: 60.5%
Bisexual men: 48.7%
Bisexual women: 64.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

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