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Kink Popularity: Choking

Choking during sexual activity involves one partner constricting the other's breathing for heightened arousal, which can be an intense and trust-centric component of play when both parties find it mutually gratifying.
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Choke my partner

28.1% said No, 27.0% said Maybe, and 44.9% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 17%
Maybe 23%
True 59%
38%
30%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 62.8%
Straight women: 28.3%
Gay men: 32.6%
Lesbian women: 44.5%
Bisexual men: 46.3%
Bisexual women: 39.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-05-03)

Have my partner choke me

23.5% said No, 22.5% said Maybe, and 54.0% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 33%
Maybe 29%
True 38%
15%
17%
68%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 36.3%
Straight women: 70.5%
Gay men: 49.5%
Lesbian women: 60.0%
Bisexual men: 47.9%
Bisexual women: 64.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-05-03)