Kink popularity

Choking

Hand on the throat during sex — for the rush and the loss-of-control, not for actually cutting off breath. People who do it seriously learn the difference first.

How common is Choking?

44.7% of test-takers say yes to Choking, and another 26.6% say maybe.
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Choke my partner

28.6% said No, 26.6% said Maybe, and 44.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 18%
Maybe 23%
True 60%
38%
30%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 63.2%
Straight women: 28.6%
Gay men: 33.4%
Lesbian women: 44.4%
Bisexual men: 44.6%
Bisexual women: 37.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

Have my partner choke me

23.3% said No, 22.0% said Maybe, and 54.7% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 33%
Maybe 28%
True 38%
15%
17%
69%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 36.7%
Straight women: 71.2%
Gay men: 50.4%
Lesbian women: 60.0%
Bisexual men: 48.6%
Bisexual women: 64.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-23)

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