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Kink Popularity: Choking

Choking during sexual activity involves one partner constricting the other's breathing for heightened arousal, which can be an intense and trust-centric component of play when both parties find it mutually gratifying.
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Choke my partner

28.2% said No, 27.0% said Maybe, and 44.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 17%
Maybe 24%
True 59%
38%
30%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 62.7%
Straight women: 28.2%
Gay men: 32.3%
Lesbian women: 44.2%
Bisexual men: 45.9%
Bisexual women: 39.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-04-05)

Have my partner choke me

23.6% said No, 22.6% said Maybe, and 53.9% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 33%
Maybe 29%
True 38%
15%
17%
68%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 36.3%
Straight women: 70.4%
Gay men: 49.2%
Lesbian women: 59.8%
Bisexual men: 47.2%
Bisexual women: 64.1%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-04-05)