Kink popularity
Denial
One person decides when — and whether — the other gets to come. Builds tension across hours, days, sometimes longer.
How common is Denial?
27.6% of test-takers say yes to Denial, and another 27.8% say maybe.
Deny sex to my partner (sexual refusal play)
44.6% said No, 27.8% said Maybe, and 27.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
| No |
51%
|
Maybe |
27%
|
| True |
22%
|
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 22.0%
Straight women: 31.3%
Gay men: 21.3%
Lesbian women: 33.3%
Bisexual men: 24.6%
Bisexual women: 39.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
Get denied sex by my partner
53.7% said No, 26.0% said Maybe, and 20.3% said Yes!
♂ Male
| No |
58%
|
Maybe |
25%
|
| True |
18%
|
Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 16.9%
Straight women: 20.9%
Gay men: 20.1%
Lesbian women: 26.2%
Bisexual men: 23.5%
Bisexual women: 27.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)
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