Kink popularity

Denial

One person decides when — and whether — the other gets to come. Builds tension across hours, days, sometimes longer.

How common is Denial?

27.1% of test-takers say yes to Denial, and another 28.2% say maybe.

Deny sex to my partner (sexual refusal play)

44.7% said No, 28.2% said Maybe, and 27.1% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 51%
Maybe 28%
True 22%
40%
29%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 21.7%
Straight women: 30.6%
Gay men: 20.8%
Lesbian women: 33.2%
Bisexual men: 23.7%
Bisexual women: 39.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

Get denied sex by my partner

53.9% said No, 26.2% said Maybe, and 19.8% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 58%
Maybe 25%
True 17%
51%
27%
22%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 16.8%
Straight women: 20.3%
Gay men: 19.8%
Lesbian women: 25.7%
Bisexual men: 23.5%
Bisexual women: 27.4%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-07-12)

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