Kink popularity

Denial

One person decides when — and whether — the other gets to come. Builds tension across hours, days, sometimes longer.

How common is Denial?

27.6% of test-takers say yes to Denial, and another 27.8% say maybe.

Deny sex to my partner (sexual refusal play)

44.6% said No, 27.8% said Maybe, and 27.6% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 51%
Maybe 27%
True 22%
40%
28%
32%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 22.0%
Straight women: 31.3%
Gay men: 21.3%
Lesbian women: 33.3%
Bisexual men: 24.6%
Bisexual women: 39.8%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

Get denied sex by my partner

53.7% said No, 26.0% said Maybe, and 20.3% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 58%
Maybe 25%
True 18%
51%
27%
22%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 16.9%
Straight women: 20.9%
Gay men: 20.1%
Lesbian women: 26.2%
Bisexual men: 23.5%
Bisexual women: 27.9%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-08-16)

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