Kink popularity

Denial

One person decides when — and whether — the other gets to come. Builds tension across hours, days, sometimes longer.

How common is Denial?

28.1% of test-takers say yes to Denial, and another 27.2% say maybe.

Deny sex to my partner (sexual refusal play)

44.7% said No, 27.2% said Maybe, and 28.1% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 51%
Maybe 27%
True 22%
40%
27%
33%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 22.0%
Straight women: 32.0%
Gay men: 21.9%
Lesbian women: 34.2%
Bisexual men: 24.3%
Bisexual women: 40.3%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

Get denied sex by my partner

53.7% said No, 25.8% said Maybe, and 20.5% said Yes!
♂ Male
No 58%
Maybe 25%
True 17%
51%
26%
23%
♀ Female

Popularity (measured by "Yes" votes):
Straight men: 16.9%
Straight women: 21.4%
Gay men: 19.4%
Lesbian women: 27.0%
Bisexual men: 23.8%
Bisexual women: 27.4%
Non-binary individuals who are into men: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into women: 0.0%
Non-binary individuals who are into both men and women: 0.0%
(last computed at 2026-10-11)

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